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Reason #041 – Stayed a Virgin Through Hard Times

November 19, 2011 by Motivity

I went to a high school where everyone was very sexual and I felt like I would be “cool” if I would have just had sex or at least had a story to tell in relation to their sex stories. I had my virgin clique in high school of girls that I hung out with. I preferred hanging with girls who were like me so I wouldn’t want sex. We helped each other stay virgins through hard times. There were times where I came close I always had a boyfriend and thought maybe if I did it like everyone else, it would relieve stress and be like a happy pill on a bad day, but I never officially lost my real virginity. After marriage, I wished that I had never even came close. Having a real relationship with a man who loves you and giving him your virginity feels right. It feels like he earned it or something. Virginity is like a gift for the person we marry and after talking to some acquaintances I knew that had sex, they told me that I was better off waiting since having multiple partners creates a sex memory log that can be hard to chase and left them constantly comparing past lovers performances to the next guy. That made sense. So my husband had the opportunity to be the best I’ve ever had in bed since I had never had anyone else. It was easy for him to be the King and for me to be his Queen since he waited too.

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