I remember so many times just feeling like a used rag that someone just wiped their greasy hands all over. I couldn’t take back what I did, but I just wanted to be better. I wanted 2 love myself enough to say no. I thought I was going to be loved for making him happy. Instead I just kept getting hurt over and over again. I gained nothing but hard times for the decisions that I … [Read more...]
Reason #001 – Bound to a Stranger
"I was at a gas station when I saw a female with a body that caught my eye. We exchanged numbers and a few days later we hooked up and had sex. I had no intentions on ever calling her again, but about 8 weeks later she called me...to tell me she was pregnant! Now, I have a son with someone I discovered I have absolutely nothing in common with, and frankly would NEVER want to be … [Read more...]
Reason #002 – Why I Saved Myself
I have many reasons why I waited, but I will list my top 3 reasons. The number one reason that I waited was because God's Word asked me to wait. Intimacy is for the married. I believe I belong to my husband and to him only. There is honor in marriage and sex is sacred within that marriage. The second reason that I waited was because I respected myself. I felt if I … [Read more...]
Reason #017 – No One Told Us to Wait to Have Sex!
I didn’t want to, but then again I did. I had been exposed to sex so many times between the age 5 through 9. It was in my mind, but not in my heart to do it. I was 15 and I had been messing around with my boyfriend. He wasn’t pressuring me and I wasn’t pressuring him either. But neither of us had anyone tell us that it would be best for us if we waited. No one told us anything. … [Read more...]